I have a Members page which I don't want to display on the main nav, however, upon logging in, I want to display its children pages. However using this code:

{{ nav from="/members-home" max_depth="20" include_entries="false" }}
  <li><a href="{{ url }}" {{ if is_current or is_parent }}class="current"{{ endif }}>{{title}}</a>
    {{ if is_current || is_parent }}
      {{ if children }}
        <ul>{{ *recursive children* }}</ul>
      {{ endif }}
    {{ endif }}
{{ /nav }}

Only works if members-home is in the main menu.

How can I get around this?